Transgender Men’s Sexual Health: Navigating Hormones and Intimacy

For transgender men, the journey of medical transition brings profound changes that extend far beyond outward appearance. Hormone therapy—typically testosterone—initiates a cascade of physical and emotional shifts that can significantly impact sexual health, desire, and intimacy. While these changes are often celebrated as affirming steps toward embodying one’s true self, they also present unique considerations for sexual wellbeing that deserve thoughtful attention.

This article explores the intersection of hormone therapy, sexual health, and intimacy for transgender men, offering evidence-based information while acknowledging the beautiful diversity of trans masculine experiences.

Understanding the Effects of Testosterone on Sexual Function

Testosterone therapy initiates numerous changes throughout the body, many of which directly affect sexual function and experience. Understanding these changes can help trans men navigate their evolving sexuality with greater confidence.

Libido Changes

One of the most commonly reported effects of testosterone therapy is a shift in sexual desire. According to Terrence Higgins Trust, many individuals experience a significant increase in libido, particularly during the first few months of hormone therapy.

“When I started T, the change in my sex drive was one of the first things I noticed,” shares Alex, 28, who began testosterone three years ago. “It wasn’t just that I wanted sex more frequently—the way I experienced desire felt different, more immediate and visual than before.”

However, experiences vary considerably. Some individuals report minimal changes in libido, while others may initially experience a decrease in sexual desire as they adjust to the emotional and physical changes of beginning hormone therapy. These variations are normal and reflect the diversity of how bodies respond to hormones.

Physical Changes Affecting Sexual Function

Testosterone initiates several physical changes that directly impact sexual function and sensation:

Genital Growth: One of the earliest physical changes is growth of the clitoris, which typically begins within the first few weeks of testosterone therapy and may continue for up to 1-2 years. This enlargement—sometimes called “bottom growth”—can significantly alter sexual sensation and function.
Vaginal Changes: Mayo Clinic notes that testosterone often leads to thinning of vaginal walls and decreased natural lubrication. These changes can increase sensitivity and potentially cause discomfort during penetrative activities without adequate lubrication.
Orgasmic Experience: Many trans men report changes in how orgasm feels and how it’s achieved. Some describe a shift toward more concentrated sensations in the enlarged clitoris/phallus, while others experience more full-body sensations.
Increased Sensitivity: The genital growth mentioned above often brings increased sensitivity, which can enhance pleasure but may also require adjustments in touch and stimulation techniques.

Dr. Jamison Green, transgender health advocate and educator, explains: “The changes in genital tissue and sensitivity mean that what felt good before testosterone might feel different now. This isn’t good or bad—it’s simply an opportunity to explore and discover new pathways to pleasure.”

Navigating Dysphoria in Sexual Contexts

For many transgender men, feelings of gender dysphoria—the distress that can result from a mismatch between gender identity and aspects of one’s body—can significantly impact sexual experiences. Testosterone therapy often alleviates certain aspects of dysphoria, but navigating intimate situations may still require thoughtful strategies.

Language and Communication

The language used to describe bodies and sexual activities can profoundly impact comfort levels during intimacy. Many trans men develop personalized vocabulary for their bodies that feels affirming:

Some prefer terms like “chest” rather than “breasts”
Some use terms like “front hole” or “bonus hole” instead of “vagina”
Some refer to their genitals as their “dick,” “T-dick,” or “phallus” rather than “clitoris”

“There’s no universal ‘right’ language,” emphasizes Sam, a 35-year-old trans man and relationship coach. “What matters is finding terms that feel authentic and comfortable for you, and communicating those preferences clearly with partners.”

Practical Approaches

Beyond language, several practical approaches can help manage dysphoria during intimate encounters:

Selective Touch: Establishing boundaries around which body parts can be touched and how they can be touched during sexual activity.
Prosthetics and Gear: Using prosthetics, packers, or strap-ons that align with gender identity and provide pleasurable sensations.
Positioning: Exploring positions that minimize focus on dysphoria-inducing body parts or that emphasize affirming physical features.
Binding or Covering: Some individuals prefer keeping certain garments on during sexual activity, such as a binder, tank top, or specially designed intimate wear for trans men.
Focus on Sensation: Shifting attention from visual aspects of the body to the sensations and pleasure being experienced.

Sexual Health Considerations

Hormone therapy brings specific sexual health considerations that transgender men should discuss with knowledgeable healthcare providers.

STI Prevention and Testing

Testosterone therapy does not provide protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). According to sexual health guidelines:

Regular STI testing remains important for sexually active individuals
Barrier methods appropriate to anatomy and sexual activities should be used
Testing frequency should be based on sexual activity and number of partners

“Many trans men report barriers to accessing appropriate sexual health services,” notes Dr. Asa Radix, Senior Director of Research and Education at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center. “Finding providers who are knowledgeable about trans bodies and who create affirming environments is crucial for maintaining sexual health.”

Resources like the National LGBTQ+ Health Education Center can help locate trans-competent healthcare providers.

Fertility and Contraception

An important consideration that sometimes gets overlooked:

Testosterone is not a reliable form of contraception
Pregnancy remains possible for trans men with a uterus and ovaries, even while taking testosterone
Testosterone can cause fetal harm if pregnancy occurs

For those who wish to avoid pregnancy, Mayo Clinic outlines several contraceptive options compatible with testosterone therapy:

Barrier methods (internal/external condoms, dental dams)
Progestin-only hormonal methods (some pills, injections, or implants)
Copper or hormonal IUDs
Permanent methods like tubal ligation for those certain they don’t want future pregnancies

For those who may want biological children in the future, discussing fertility preservation options before starting testosterone is recommended, as fertility may be affected by long-term hormone use.

Intimacy and Relationships

Navigating relationships and intimacy as a transgender man involves considerations beyond the physical effects of hormones.

Communication with Partners

Open communication forms the foundation of satisfying intimate relationships:

Discussing boundaries, preferences, and affirming language before sexual encounters
Regularly checking in as bodies and feelings evolve with hormone therapy
Creating space for partners to ask questions and learn

“When I started testosterone, my partner and I set aside time each month to talk about the changes we were noticing and how they affected our intimacy,” shares Jordan, 42. “Those conversations weren’t always easy, but they helped us navigate the transition together rather than separately.”

Dating and Disclosure

For those dating or forming new relationships, questions about when and how to disclose transgender status often arise:

Some prefer disclosing early to filter out potential partners who might react negatively
Others prefer waiting until a connection has formed
Dating apps for LGBTQ+ individuals often allow users to identify as transgender and set preferences accordingly

There’s no single “right” approach to disclosure—each person must weigh personal safety, comfort, and circumstances when making these decisions.

Evolving Sexuality and Attraction

Some transgender men report shifts in their sexuality or patterns of attraction after starting testosterone. These changes may include:

Shifts in who they find attractive
Changes in what types of sexual activities feel fulfilling
Evolution in sexual or romantic orientation

A systematic review published in 2025 noted that gender-affirming hormones generally improved quality of life and wellbeing, which can positively impact intimate relationships. However, the review also highlighted the need for more research on the specific effects of testosterone on sexuality and relationships.

Practical Strategies for Sexual Exploration

As bodies change with hormone therapy, sexual exploration becomes an important part of reconnecting with oneself and discovering new sources of pleasure.

Solo Exploration

Self-touch and masturbation provide safe opportunities to explore changing bodies:

Experimenting with different types of touch and pressure
Noticing new erogenous zones that emerge with testosterone
Trying different toys designed for trans masculine bodies
Practicing mindfulness to stay connected with bodily sensations

“Masturbation became a form of self-care during my transition,” explains Elijah, 31. “It helped me map the changes in my body and discover what felt good without the pressure of having to communicate that to someone else in the moment.”

Navigating Intimacy with Partners

For partnered sexual activities, several approaches can enhance comfort and pleasure:

Start with Low-Pressure Activities: Begin with activities that feel affirming and comfortable before exploring more vulnerable forms of intimacy.
Incorporate Toys and Aids: Explore the growing market of sex toys designed specifically for trans masculine bodies, or adapt existing toys in creative ways.
Prioritize Lubrication: Address vaginal dryness from testosterone with high-quality lubricants appropriate for your activities and body.
Schedule Check-ins: Establish regular, non-sexual conversations about what’s working well and what might need adjustment.
Explore Fantasy and Role-Play: For some, incorporating fantasy elements that affirm gender can enhance sexual experiences.

Finding Support and Resources

Navigating the intersection of transgender identity, hormone therapy, and sexuality benefits from community connection and professional support.

Community Resources

Peer support groups specifically for transgender men
Online forums where experiences and advice can be shared
Educational workshops on trans sexuality offered by LGBTQ+ centers
Books and memoirs by transgender authors discussing intimacy and sexuality

Professional Support

Gender-affirming therapists with expertise in sexuality
Sex educators specializing in transgender experiences
Healthcare providers knowledgeable about transgender sexual health
Relationship counselors experienced in supporting couples through transition

The Ongoing Journey

Sexual health for transgender men on hormone therapy isn’t a destination but an ongoing journey of discovery, adaptation, and growth. Bodies continue to change, relationships evolve, and personal relationships with sexuality develop over time.

Dr. Green emphasizes: “There’s no single ‘transgender sexual experience.’ Each person’s journey with hormones, body, and sexuality is unique. The goal isn’t to achieve some idealized version of sexuality, but to create authentic, pleasurable experiences that honor your identity and desires.”

What remains constant is the importance of approaching this journey with curiosity, self-compassion, and a willingness to communicate. By doing so, transgender men can cultivate sexual wellbeing that affirms their identity and enriches their lives.

Conclusion: Toward Holistic Sexual Wellbeing

Testosterone therapy offers many transgender men a path toward greater bodily alignment with their gender identity, with effects that ripple through all aspects of sexuality and intimacy. By understanding these changes, communicating openly with partners, accessing appropriate healthcare, and approaching sexual exploration with patience and curiosity, trans men can navigate this territory in ways that promote both physical health and emotional wellbeing.

The growing body of research, including the 2025 systematic review on gender-affirming hormones, continues to affirm that medical transition generally improves quality of life for transgender individuals. As our collective understanding of transgender sexual health expands, so too does the potential for transgender men to experience sexuality that is not just physically safe but emotionally fulfilling and authentically aligned with their gender identity.

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